It was late evening 7.30 PM and I was checking my phone for a
message from one of my team members. There was no message. I’ve given him a task and I asked him to
update me in the evening. I was little worried since he was doing this task for
the first time.
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What happened in the evening?
The task that was given in the evening was to talk to two
campus hires who did not clear their graduation. It was a conditional offer that they should
pass their graduation when the results get published. Two of them did not clear and they’ve
appeared again in the instant exam. We
wanted to ask them to take a temporary break and join back once they get the
results. I’ve given this job to one of
the team members after a detailed briefing as to how he should approach it.
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It was 30 min past 7.00 pm and I did not get his
message. I was in a dilemma as to
whether I should text him & disturb him or I should wait till tomorrow and
then talk to him to find out if there was any problem. Then I decided to text
him. I get an immediate reply stating
that there was no issue; those two boys were confident that they will clear the
exam and they promised that they will come back and join. I felt little better but
it did not last a second. There was another message that said he was very
uncomfortable doing this job. I replied, don’t worry. We will discuss tomorrow
morning.
It reminded me of my first interaction that I had with my
first Boss on the first day of my first job. My boss asked me to list down jobs that I most
preferred (good) and least preferred to do (Bad and ugly). You can check what I listed down to my Boss.
Most preferred jobs. (Good)
Recruitment / Performance Management system/ HRMS/ Training
and development / MIS/ Trade union management / Industrial Disputes.
Least preferred jobs (Bad and Ugly)
Canteen Management / workmen’s grievance handling/ Disciplinary action
After listening to me, he told me that he was going to train
me in the order exactly opposite to what I said. Ugly, Bad and Good. Believe
me, he kept his words and walked the talk without any deviation. I got to do
things in the order of his preference, not mine. With little reluctance, I
accepted but I wanted to take up the challenge. Anyway, there was no other choice.
When I left the organization, on my last day, I really
thanked him for reversing the order in which I wanted to do things. To be honest, if I were to have a
time-machine now, I would go back and set the work priorities myself in the same
order as it was done by him because of the valuable lessons that I learnt. I’ve given below some of my insights on this.
1) No job is good or bad or ugly by itself. It’s how we look
at them, it’s not that the job is bad.
2) We are comfortable to do good job and uncomfortable to do
bad and ugly jobs. But we should not shy
away from doing it. Our experience is
incomplete without doing the so-called bad and ugly jobs.
3) What we consider as bad & ugly job can be good tomorrow
in terms of learning. Our perspectives
change over a period of time and we realize the true meaning of learning and
where it really comes from.
4) Valuable lessons that I’ve learnt doing the so called bad &
ugly jobs helped me build the much needed foundation for a long-term career.
So the next day, first thing in the morning, I met him and
listened to him. He was feeling guilty for
what he had to do it and he had upset those two boys. We had an open discussion which revolved
around the following points.
1. Do you think we should have allowed those employees to
continue even though they failed in their graduation? The answer was No.
2. Do you think what we’ve / you’ve done is wrong? The answer
was No.
3) Do you think we were not objective and biased to them? The answer was No.
4) Do you think we were over-reacting? The answer was No.
5) Is it that you are feeling guilty and you would have
preferred someone else to do it? The answer was YES
6) Would you shy away from telling employees that you’ve done
a good job or good things that will make them happy? The answer was No.
7) If there anything that you’ve learnt out of this
task. Yes. Being objective with
emotional balance and doing the right things in the best interest of the
organization.
He has understood what I was trying to tell him. I told him that he was going to do similar
kind of tasks in future and he needed to brace himself for that.
Let me conclude stating that no job is good or bad or ugly by
itself. It’s how we look at them. It’s the so-called bad and ugly jobs that give
us valuables lessons in life and make our learning and experience complete.
Let us be prepared for the good, the Bad & the ugly. Let us not shy away.
So are you ready?
diD yOU enJOY ReADinG ThIS ArTIcLE?
If yES,
yOU maY sHAre it wiTH Your FriENds tOO
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