It was one of the weekdays wherein I had an unexpected work and had to
take off in the morning. I did not realize then that this particular day was
going to become a day to remember for the wrong reason but it had nothing to do
with the unexpected work that I had.
BTW, the unexpected work was my son’s progress review with his teacher. It
got delayed, however I had to wait patiently with a smile intact on my face since
she is my son’s teacher and she looked strict even to the parents. By the time,
we could complete our reviews, I was delayed and was hurrying up to the office.
When I say hurrying up, I mean driving little faster than your usual
speed which helps only the extent of saving a couple of minutes and it’s not a
big deal. Even then the sense of urgency
in me was pushing me and was overtaking the logic. After all, you feel some
time is saved when you overtake few vehicles on the road. An illusional satisfaction without any real
sense. So I was driving faster, of course, within the limits but missed the
NO-FREE TURN (which means you cannot drive without green signal) to be stopped
by a traffic constable.
Things that happened right after that were 1) verification of driving
license 2) verification of vehicle documents and 3) Penalty and then I was let
go.
Points to ponder
The penalty that was meant to be a negative reinforcement for violation
of a traffic rule had 3 important elements as given below: I really liked it and
I think it should be there in any negative reinforcements and at Workplaces too.
# Immediate: It was “immediate” without any delay. If it’s delayed,
it gets diluted and loses its effect.
# Future risk: Every penalty
is linked to your driving license and repeated violation will spell a
doom. So you know the risk potential which
would act as a mental deterrence for not repeating in future too. If it’s not linked to the driving license,
every violation will be treated as a stand-alone violations in an isolation and
there will be no mental deterrence to not repeat it.
#Quantum of punishment: I remember
to have paid few hundreds which I think was is in line with the gravity of the
mistake. Anything less or more would have defeated the purpose of the negative
reinforcement.
I think all these three elements are applicable in any workplace
situations too wherein you want to give an effective negative reinforcement to
change an unacceptable behavior. The only thing that you would want to add is to
not reprimand in front of other and make it one-on-one.
All these element are applicable to positive reinforcement too when you
want to encourage and reinforce the acceptable behavioral traits, i.e., it has
to be immediate, should have future benefits (instead of risk), appropriate
quantum of rewards (instead of punishment) and should be in front of others (instead
of one-on-one)
So next time, when you want to give any reinforcement, be it positive or
negative, do bear in mind these important elements. They could be
game-changers.
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